Have you ever tried to figure yourself out? Don't try...it only gives you a headache! If you're comfortable with who you are....let yourself shine. My father was in the Air Force, growing up as a military brat was and experience. I remember when my mom was giving birth to my youngest brother my dad had to watch the 3 of us. He would line us up for inspection to make sure we did everything right. My mom was the gestapo in the family. She was tough as nails and we towed the line with her. I come from strong minded, strong willed parents. My parents believed, if you have something to say, spit it out! If you didn't have the backbone, you're too weak. Fight for what you believe in....never back down to know one.
I love my parents, I'm thankful....no grateful that they are who they are.
Don't figure yourself out....just know who you are and be grateful that you turned out the way you turned out.
Are you comfortable with yourself? Are you comfortable with who you are? Then let yourself shine! shine! shine!